Welcome to the inauguration of our Harmony Keys Blog.
What is Harmony Keys? It is a safe place to talk about relationship issues.
So, since this is an inauguration, or a maiden voyage, let’s start things off by christening our new blog.
There, we just cracked a bottle of champagne across the proverbial bow. Can you hear the crowd cheering?
A few years ago, while packing to move to a different state, I discovered a very old assembly of ribbons that were braided in the shape of what must have been a gargantuan champagne bottle. The bottle was long-gone, but the faded ribbon casing remained, kept in tact by one of my also long-gone relatives.
After searching through family albums, I located a photo of Aunt Josephine with that same ribbon be-decked bottle in her arms, ready to whale it against the bow of a very large ship. A sturdy-looking lad was beside her, probably assigned to help her whang the bow with the bottle. It was written under the photo that Auntie Jo was selected to do the honors because Uncle William was in the shipping business. How they saved the ribbons is a mystery.
If you are worried that we are mixing metaphors here between keys to harmony and ships, cast your concerns aside. The connection between unlocking doors in relationships and launching new vessels is valid. Sometimes in relationships, doors are closed, even slammed, and locked. Sometimes the entire relationship goes into dry dock and is shut down. In that case, all the doors on the vessel are locked up for safety. Then people start looking for ways to mend the problem, open communication, and restore a healthy relationship.
So let’s do a little experiment: If you have a memory of a person in your family, or you’ve read about someone in any period of history who impressed you as helping open doors to healthy relationships, jot down your thoughts and send them in. We will all benefit. My guess is that, together, we will produce a plethora of invigorating ways that people help people. Are you game?
Now you know. At Harmony Keys, we will post articles about relationship dilemmas. Your comments and questions are respectfully invited. Welcome aboard!